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Life will beat you down



This month has been a tough one for me since I have been called on by various friends to be there as a support or as an advice lender to get them through one situation or the other leaving me in a state of not knowing what to post for this month as a blog. So here goes nothing. Hopefully, the following paragraph of sentences blesses someone.

Remember when we were little children and we craved adulthood so much that we hated the idea of being called kids or children. When our parents would say things like, "let me help you get dressed or let me help you with your bath" , we would reply, "I can do it myself". I'm a big boy /girl or simply, I'm big now were the phrases that followed suit. No one could blame us because adults seemed cool. It only seemed like they got it all figured out and knew something we did not know. They seemed grounded in life and were able to manouver through life with great poise. Little did we know that we had misjudged the book by its cover. We had it all wrong because life as an adult is not one of a bed of roses but a narrow path of thorns. Now, that we are here, we cannot run from the buffet or platter of ordeals that life throws our way. When life serves us something sweet, sour, spicy or mild, the only thing we can do is to rely on the relationships around us to solidify our stances in the world we live in to achieve each life goals we set our hearts to. This is the reason why it is paramount to surround ourselves with relationships that speak life into us. Relationships that add to us rather than subtract and multiply rather than divide.
Regardless of our differences, the common denominator is that life will beat you down if you are not built strong. It will lead you into places you never thought you will end up in. It will turn you into a person you hardly recognize in the reflection of the mirror. The important thing to take away from this is that when life hits you with a barrage of punches, it is important to stay grounded, re-focus on your life goals and soar on. It can be easier said than done but with training through meditation and mindfulness, it's doable. Let your mind lift weights that your body cannot, so you can withstand the pressures of life and soar on to achieve your life goals.
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  1. Kirsten Dusten7 Sept 2019, 11:56:00

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    1. Relationships - You make it or break it26 Mar 2020, 00:25:00

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