The role of the woman

Last month's blog discussed the role of a man in a relationship. What a man should do or needs to do when in a relationship. It was one of my favorite blogs to write and I suggest you read it if you are yet to do so. This month's blog focuses on what a woman needs to do or should be doing in a relationship. In short, it will discuss the role of a woman in a relationship. So what is a woman's role? Well a woman is an accessory to a man. In other words, a man is not complete without the right woman for him. Consider a man who is wearing a suit with no shoes, tie, belt and so on. That man looks good from a POV but as a whole, desperately is in need of accessories to complete his ensemble. This does not mean that a man cannot exist without a woman. He sure can but without the presence of the right woman in his life, he leads an incomplete one. The importance of a woman in a relationship cannot be overstated. A woman's role in a relationship is to help the man and add substance to the man's life. As the man in a relationship is the driver of a vehicle, so is the woman in a relationship, the co-captain of the ship. She steers the ship in the direction it should go when the man is unable to. The right woman for any man is that man's strength when he is weak. She is his counsel in times of confusion or disarray. She is his fortress when the world comes crashing at his feet. These are just minutiae things when you consider the benefits of having the right woman in a relationship. The right woman submits herself to the man and helps the man to be that man he needs to be. Just like a cosmetic agent or make up, she exfoliates his bad qualities and not so good habits and covers his shortcomings. In summation, the woman is the helper of the man. No matter how great a man may be, he came from a woman and needs another woman to complete him. It is important to note that the role of a woman in a relationship does not revolve around filling the physical belly of a man with the food she cooks in the kitchen or satisfying his sexual desires in the boudoir. It runs deeper than that.

*POV = point of view

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