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What women need

What do women want from a man? This is a common question men normally ask when it comes to dating.  Men always say no one can figure out what a woman is thinking or what a woman wants.  Remember the 2000 romantic movie, what women wants, when Mel Gibson an advertising executive acquires the power to hear the thoughts of women. Well, in reality men don't have that luxury to know the thoughts of women to know what they want.  However, I think I have a good idea of what women need from a man.  So, listen up boys as I highlight the top 4 things a woman needs from a man.  Women always drool over the tall, dark and handsome man fantasy. Although that is a deal breaker for most if not all women, most women do not get married to those type of men. Rather women are more interested in other qualities. I think the most important quality  women need from a man is respect.  Now respect is an umbrella term that includes loyalty, honesty  and fairness. A woman will respect you when you respect them. Respect begets respect.  Women get upset when men fail to understand that they deserve respect or when they have to demand it.  The second most important thing a woman need from a man is dependability. A woman needs a man that she can depend on in any given situation.  A shoulder to lean on, a listening ear to talk to and someone who can engage her in intelligent conversations that not only forms intimacy but mentally turns her on.  The third quality a woman needs from a man is a man that is ambitious or has a goal in life.  Women don't necessarily need a man who is fully established in life.  But they admire a man that has a sense of direction and is passionate about what they hope to achieve in life. The fourth thing a woman needs from a man is a man that takes initiative. Women gets frustrated when they have to tell a man what to do but are elated when a man actually takes care of issues that needs handling.  You actually get bonus points for that.  There are other things women need from a man but as long as you do the aforementioned things or possess those qualities and pay attention to her needs, you will have nothing to worry about.  Women do not need a perfect man because they know that does not exist but they appreciate a man that strives to be better.

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