That four-lettered word. Not the one you'd expect.

I had a different blog that I wanted to post for this month but i just could not finish that said blog for some reason. I scratched the surface for words, sentences and paragraphs to complete that blog but I still could not. It was then I realized that it was not the right time for that blog to be published. So, this morning, I woke up with a message for all avid or new readers of my blog. When we are born into this earth, the first people we come to know are our family. The ones that made us, show us love and try to protect us from harm and the real truth of the world till we are mature or old enough to deal with those truths. And the reality is that those truths are some hard and cold truths that we will ever face in life. That truth is that the world is a beautiful place, however filled with people that may not share the same love in their heart that we had once experienced. The reality is that we leave a home that is filled or supposedly filled with love from our parents and family and get embraced by hate that exists in society. Love becomes an old song on the radio that comes on every now and then while hate plays on at all times like the big hit tune. I compare hate to problems because they are very identical. Hate and problems are unavoidable. They both are meant for everyone and play significant roles in our lives. When we experience hate from the so called haters, we sometimes feel defeated, isolated or unloved. But that's not the purpose of hate in our life journey. The hate we experience from the so-called haters seem like they are meant to make us feel defeated, isolated or unloved. However, that hate we experience are meant to drive us, to bring out our competitive nature and get us to our life's purpose. It is important to note that not everyone will love you. You will have those that love you (who die to their love towards you may not be able to fuel you to achieve your life's goals) and those that hate you (who may fuel you to forge on to success). At the end of the day, the lyrics to the song of hate and love that we hear in life becomes embedded in our perspectives. Now, everyone reacts differently to hate as we are built differently. Reaction however is more important than the action since is the product of the latter. How we view hate (that four-lettered word that we hardly expect), that we do experience depends on our perspective because some see a glass half full while others see a glass half empty. The reality remains that hate is the fuel that drives the engine of our life journey.

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