She won't call him handsome

Women in general are created to perfection. Their well-proportioned facial features, bodacious curves and innate cat-like walks are some of many things women possess that drive men insane. Traditionally, it has been the duty of the man to acknowledge a woman’s appearance or beauty. Most people would agree that it is the gentleman’s thing to do. A man who takes a woman out on a date is expected to compliment her appearance or beauty if he wants to score a second date with her. Admiration comments are also expected from husbands and boyfriends. Many couples have had fights that stemmed from the husband not complimenting their wives’ appearance. This stresses the importance of verbally acknowledging a woman’s appearance. However, it is also important for the woman to acknowledge the men on their appearance because men do appreciate those words and compliments. Words like “You are so handsome”, “I love that color on you. It makes you look more attractive” makes a man feel like a million bucks. Men are egocentric beings in general and compliments or words of praise from a woman or a significant other helps feed our egos and help boost our confidence. Therefore, it is imperative for a couple to say nice things to each other on a daily basis. This fosters a healthy relationship, lessens quarrels and boosts the confidence of both.  For a relationship to work, be it marriage, friendship or other, there has to be good communication between both parties. Acknowledging each other’s appearance or physical attributes are forms of communication, and also a way of keeping things fresh or to keep the fire in the relationship burning because it can definitely lead to flirting. So ladies, just as you enjoy a man telling you those nice things that make you blush, you should also return the favor to the men. It goes both ways.